All of the recommended interventions in this area have one commonality: Each tries to create more options for the
gay man or lesbian woman making a career decision.
And in the last generation such an individual sometimes identified with the newly created medical category of the transsexual who is not supposed to be a
gay man at all.
The suburbanization of the
gay man compounds the absence of guys my age out on a weekly basis.
John Bartlett, an out
gay man, is working at a high level of accomplishement in menswear, producing brainy conceptual design to considerable critical acclaim.
In A Place at the Table, Bruce Bawer, a
gay man, wrestles with the mask of homosexuality he has been assigned.
Lou DiJinio, the only
gay man in the show, is pictured alone.
As much as the Internet can bridge the divide between a
gay man in New York City and an anonymous straight stud in suburban America, it can also be a harsh reminder of how much space still exists between us.
What's the difference between a
gay man and a lesbian?
It is in this context that I have wrestled with myself over whether, as a
gay man, I am Queer.