What stands out in your narrative is your history of childhood sexual abuse which, methinks, is the root of your vaginismus
Similarly, academic education (compared to elementary and secondary education), and a history of mental illness were predictors of the occurrence of vaginismus
The overall model for GSI in women explained a significant proportion of variance in the infrequency, anorgasmia, sexual non-communication, vaginismus
, non-sensuality, sexual avoidance, and partner dissatisfaction subscales of the GRISS.
is an involuntary contraction of the vagina's muscles, one that prevents penetration during sex.
17] (2013) Questionnaire (International Index of Erectile Function-15) Authors (year) Results Michaelides  (1976) 18 (53%) achieved orgasm, 8 (24%) significant sexual arousal without orgasm, 8 (24%) little or no arousal Eppel and Berzin  (1984) Normal ejaculation and conception in 2/3 of cases of retrograde ejaculation treated with clomipramine Krige  (1985) Successful psychoeducational intervention for vaginismus
Van ZyI [20,21] (1987) Major psychosexual factors: lack of sex education (81% M, 56% F), pre-marital sex (71% M, 56% F) and infertility (27% M, 43% F) Hurwitz  (1989) Increased sexual dysfunction during the fertile period reported by 50% female v.
Diagnosed with vaginismus
, the young bride desperately cajoles her reluctant body to yield, in the hope of escaping the gossip and outrageous meddling.
A YOU say doctors have already diagnosed vaginismus
The most prevalent sexual problems women with histories of CSA reported were disorders of desire, arousal, orgasm, and less often dyspareunia (painful coitus) and vaginismus
(Leonard & Follette, 2002; Westerlund, 1992).
He overviews the phases of the process and compares it to other techniques, and describes its uses for mental and physical problems; its theory and assumptions; applications to pain, post-traumatic stress disorder, migraine and tension headaches, depression and anxiety, addictions, vaginismus
, and weight management; cases; how to deal with problems in communication and resistance to change; research on its efficacy; other considerations such as self-use, recurrent symptoms, and when not to use it; and the Subliminal Therapy Institute, which he established in 2009.
Psychological factors are by far the commonest cause and I think your husband's behaviour could be, at least partly, to blame for the condition that I think you have - vaginismus
THE FIVE MOST COMMON SEXUAL PROBLEMS, ACCORDING TO JULIET GRAYSON FOR MEN Relationship difficulties Problems with erections Loss of desire for a partner Sexual addictions Premature ejaculation FOR WOMEN Relationship Loss of desire for a partner Lack of arousal Anorgasmia (inability to reach orgasm) Vaginismus
(muscular spasm of the vagina)
Botulinum toxin in the treatment of refractory vaginismus