Because of denial, inappropriate sexuality, and misperceived femininity, women begin to desexualize
themselves at work.
Although the author desexualizes
her fictional representations of homosexuality quite considerably, it seems that she might imply consummated sexual relations between men in this novel.
There's always a temptation to pull back on ourselves; you don't want to make this foolish vamp; on the other hand, you don't want to have to desexualize
a woman to put her image out there.
A critical argument of this work is how disabled/nondisabled couples are branded in popular representations by notions of "care as burden" that not only valorizes the "care-giver" but also desexualizes
the relationship entirely.
Refreshingly, Hillman challenges the tired notion (held by Freud, Ernest Jones, and countless critics since) that Hamlet's desires are Oedipal with a reading of the closet scene that demonstrates how the prince desexualizes
his mother even as he seeks to know her insides.
Circumcision of infants is an example because the rite desexualizes
an original rite of passage for males who have attained puberty; so also is the interpretation of the Song of Songs as an allegory of God's love for Israel and not as an eulogy of earthly love, which it plainly is.
Or is it that the hijab desexualizes
(which is not the given many people assume) and that this is where the loss of power occurs?
Hermann sexualizes the legitimate and desexualizes
the adulterous relationship.